There are ways of "losing time," to be sure, that may make me unhappy: standing on line for a grocery clerk or sitting in an overbooked doctor's office; listening to a presenter read what is projected on a screen; working in a boring or detestable job; waiting for medical test results, anticipating bad news that might come.
But there's also at least one way of "losing time" that I love: what psychologist Mihaly Csikszentimihalyi calls "flow," the sense of complete absorption and loss of self when engaged in an activity that fully occupies a person, in an activity one loves. Over my lifetime, different activies have resulted in flow: play-pretend, geometry, tennis, music, writing, reading, acting. Now, I need only take my camera outside and walk -- somewhere familiar or unfamiliar -- and shoot. Today, for example, I spent half an hour with this female Autumn Meadowhawk.
While others may complain on the weekend about the time change, I won't because I love losing/gaining time by making it flow.
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